Dark Side of the Vegan Moon

Admitting our Dark Side

One Vegan’s Dark Side…

The other night whilst taking a few moments to enjoy the silence, I looked up and saw a gigantic Godzilla spider (ok it wasn’t that big- maybe a 50 cent piece in diameter- but for a long term arachnophobic, that IS equivalent to Godzilla). Fear filled me, adrenalin pumped through my veins and my fight or flight mechanism went into overdrive. Fleeing was seriously contemplated, though the thought of not knowing where Godzilla was lurking, forced me to confront the fear.

But then another fear came online- If I am wanting to live a truly compassionate life and extend that to all beings… what was I going to do with this fricking spider? I was terrified to get too close to it, unlike the countless creepy crawlies I capture and release outside. And in my own darkness- I ashamedly admit that I was seriously considering spraying it, despite having always hated the thought of spraying another living being (such a prolonged and agonising death). But then a sobering (and slightly unwanted in that moment) epiphany – Why does humanity seek to destroy what it is fearful of or misunderstands?

All of a sudden I was flooded with images from World War Two where nearly six million Jewish people were murdered under the Nazi dictatorship, in Hitler’s racially motivated ideology for a superior “Aryan race”. I was then transported to Cambodia where a close friend and I had walked in absolute horror through the killing fields and Tuol Sleng, a former high school which was used as a place of torture at the notorious Security Prison 21 (S-21) by the Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge regime. Memories and images which still haunt and sicken me today.

Many other heinous historical moments –towards both mankind and the continual assault on our sentient animal relatives- rushed through me as I stood and stared at this helpless ‘Godzilla’ spider. I was deeply ashamed at my initial instinct to kill what I was afraid of, to eradicate a life which I did not fully understand. As Friedrich Nietzsche so aptly said “Man is the cruelest animal” to walk this earth.

What made me superior to this being, to sentence it to death because I was too fearful to confront my own fears and insecurities? There was only one alternative- capture it so I could set it free and in doing so, acknowledge the dark side of my own humanity.
My methodology for doing this was long, terrifying and quite honestly, ridiculously comical. Thank goodness for empty plastic containers (with opaque walls so I couldn’t see inside), thick cardboard and a dose of courage to make me look at the deeper message of this unwanted visitor. And so as I write this, I am both comforted and unsettled by the Buddha’s wise words: “It is a man’s own mind, not his enemy or foe, that lures him to evil ways”. Perhaps the world would be a safer place we could all acknowledge our own darkness?

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I'm an animal loving soul with a passion for creating more compassion in the world, both towards ourselves and all sentient beings :)
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4 Responses to Dark Side of the Vegan Moon

  1. cbsabacus says:

    I admire enormously how you conquered your fear, faced your ‘evil’ human nature and found a practical way to deal with the situation. And you were even able to reflect on the whole situation, what a great experience. Still I wish you less crawlers…. Love

  2. What a powerful post!! Since going vegan, I’ve struggled with questions about killing bugs too. Mine, however; don’t typically stem from fear but from disgust. Should I kill ants when they invade my living room? Should I kill a tick on my pooch? Should I have an exterminator get rid of the termites in my house? I’m torn about these situations because I don’t want to kill living creatures for my own comfort and yet I want to be comfortable. Tough questions!! Celeste 🙂

    • Hi Celeste- thank you! Yes they are really tough questions with a common theme of speciesism.. I grapple with these things too and I don’t think there is an easy answer. I think adopting a vegan lifestyle is so much more than our diet, but with that opens up the floodgates of ethical questions.. if only life was that simple!

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